My husband tells me everyday how beautiful I am and goes out of his way to make me comfortable.
Anyone else or am I just lucky ?How does your husband let you know he loves you ?
He holds me close, always looks me in the eye, never lies to me and brings me flowers for no reason.
He is a great father to our son.
He never complains.How does your husband let you know he loves you ?
My husband sure doesn't make me feel beautiful but he makes up for it in other ways...he always makes sure he gives me a kiss right when he wakes up, leaves, or comes home. He always cuddles with me and tells me how much he loves me. He's always got my back. and He's taking my toddler in as his own child, I couldn't ask for a better guy. I truly am lucky!
My fiance kisses me, cuddles me, holds me tight and tells me exactly what I mean to him, when I'm sick he props me in bed and gives me a hot water bottle, the other night I wasn't feeling well so he did my bottle for me and said ';Into bed now missy'; hehe :)
He's also coming to see me at work today to enjoy coffee on our lunch break :)
all of the above, plus looking into his eyes i know he isn't trying to earn brownie points. i see that he truly loves me and wants to please me.
you know, my parents were married over 50 years and my dad still treated my mom this way-the honeymoon never has to end!
My man will do ANYTHING for me... I know that he would die for me he doesn't need to complement me everyday to let me know he loves me his actions speak MUCH louder then words!
I think you got one of the few good men on the earth.
Yes you are lucky!
Me too, and by holding me, rubbing me (massages), etc.... It feels great doesn't it?
good you are lucky
your honeymoon has just started
he doesn't
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
How can my husband get his own graphic novel published?
My husband has been an artist for about 12 years and has an art degree. He wants to change into a different field and doesn't know alot about publishing graphic novels but it's a huge interest for him. Does anyone have any advice or know how to break into this industry? Also, he's making his OWN graphic novel....he has no interest in interning somewhere. He did all that many years ago when he worked in the film industry.How can my husband get his own graphic novel published?
You might try getting an agent that works for that industry. An agent would make sure his work gets into the right hands and probably make it easier for him to break into the industry. If you don't want an agent you might research publishers who do graphic novels and if they accept them unsolicited, find how they want them sent in and try sending his work to different publishers and see if he gets results.How can my husband get his own graphic novel published?
Go and send your work to all the publisher u know. Then, have to depend on your luck. Or u can try online. Many people do success when they post their work online. Thank you.
find a good publisher. just find a good graphic novel book then read the second page and look for who published it and the adress.
You might try getting an agent that works for that industry. An agent would make sure his work gets into the right hands and probably make it easier for him to break into the industry. If you don't want an agent you might research publishers who do graphic novels and if they accept them unsolicited, find how they want them sent in and try sending his work to different publishers and see if he gets results.How can my husband get his own graphic novel published?
Go and send your work to all the publisher u know. Then, have to depend on your luck. Or u can try online. Many people do success when they post their work online. Thank you.
find a good publisher. just find a good graphic novel book then read the second page and look for who published it and the adress.
What is a good dish to cook for my husband for our 4 year anniversary?
I am cooking challenged, so please don't recommend anything difficult!! : )What is a good dish to cook for my husband for our 4 year anniversary?
I would just go to a sushi and get some to go, along with seaweed salad and japanese dessert. Also buy miso paste (from asian or health food stores) and mix it with warm water for miso soup. You can add a few thin slices of steamed carrot or a few cubes of soft tofu. Buy some sake (japanese wine, to be served hot). That will most likely impress and please him.What is a good dish to cook for my husband for our 4 year anniversary?
lobster
delicious and easy to cook
pop the buggers into a pot of boiling water et voila
serve with some salad
Instant gourmet meal
Anniversary chicken. Its at the www.allrecipes.com website. It is awesome and made just for this occasion.
set up a nice beautiful table and order the food he likes ,to be delivered :-)
This is very easy, and should work.
Beef Supreme
1 package beef stew meat
enough flour to coat meat
3 medium potatoes, peeled and cut into cubes
3 carrots, peeled and sliced (or about a half a bag of baby carrots)
1 medium onion, sliced
2 cans of cream of mushroom soup
salt and pepper
cooked rice or noodles
In a microwave safe casserole dish, place meat and flour - stir around till all the meat has flour on it. Cook on high in the microwave about 5 minutes.
Add all the other ingredients except cooked rice or noodles to the casserole dish. Cover. Cook for 5 minutes on high power, then about 20 minutes on medium power. Serve over rice or noodles.
He will be real impressed, and it's really easy.
If you have trouble cooking rice on the stove, try this:
1 cup rice
2 cups water
place in deep microwaveable casserole dish. Microwave 5 minutes on high and about 15 minutes on medium till liquid is absorbed and rice is done (depends on your microwave just how long it takes). It may boil over a little if your dish isn't deep enough, but it's much easier to clean out a microwave than a pan with burnt rice in it!
Good question, but I would ask you some of his favorite foods. I cook a lot, and probably can recomend some ';easier'; dishes. Also, include what he definately won't eat as well... We'll try to ';cook something up'; for you...
Lamb cutlets with wine sauce and mash!
You'll need the following:
400g potatoes
25g butter
2tbsp olive oil
sea salt
ground black pepper
4 lamb cutlets
1 glass red wine
25g cold butter, diced
4 leeks, trimmed and sliced
well, here we go:
1. Peel the potatoes and boil in a pan of water. Simmer for 20 min and drain well. Return to the pan and shake gently over a low heat to steam off any excess moisture.
2. Add the butter, olive oil, and seasoning and mash well until smooth and creamy. Cover and keep warm .
3. Heat a little olive oil in a frying pan and, when hot, cook the cutlets on a medium to high heat-3min for rare, 4min for medium, 6min for well done.
4. Remove and keep warm. Pour wine into pan and bring to rapid boil. Add cold butter and whisk to the make the sauce. Serve with steam leeks and mash.
Hope I've helped
Mmmm...if you both like it, I'd go italian, with some good wine.
hmmmm im going tell u how make some so hard to eat
ready
GO OUT TO A NICE PLACE AND EAT
u should have to cook
lol
How come he isn't taking you out for the 4th anniversary? That would be my take.
but if you must cook, try a steak, its' hard to ruin.
Crab and Vegetables Mikado
Serves 6
6 to 8 ounces crab meat from an Alaskan King Crab
1/4 pound fresh mushrooms
2 tablespoons butter
1 can bamboo shoots, 6 oz.
1 can of bean sprouts, 1 lb.
4 scallions, sliced 1 1/2 inch thick
1/4 cup soya sauce, Kikkoman light is best
1 tablespoon vinegar
4 teaspoons honey
hot steamed rice
Thaw and drain crab. Slice into chunks. If mushrooms are large, slice in half and saute in butter till golden. Add crab and remaining ingredients to mushrooms; simmer till heated, stirring gently. Serve with hot rice. Rice is good with addition of dried parsley and vegetable both, or maybe a pinch of curry.
I suggest a nice dry sparkling wine like Italian spumante or Trokken Brut. Champagne is a little overwhelming. A nice dessert might be my wife's favourite:
Buy an angel cake from the bakery, as well as a honeydew or canteloupe and a package of light Dream Whip. You can use real whipped if you like. I prefer the lighter quality of Dream whip. Cut the cake into three layers. Take a round cake pan and layer the cake with pieces of fruit and Dream Whip. A nice strawberry sauce or garnish would be a great addition.
Orange Orzo Salad Recipe Prep Time: 25 minutes
Cook Time: 10 minutes
A refreshing salad that looks as pleasing as it tastes.
Orange Orzo Salad
Ingredients
- 8 ounces orzo
- 4 tablespoons olive oil
- 4 tablespoons orange juice
- 3 tablespoons grated orange peel
- salt and pepper to taste
- 2 oranges, peeled, cut into sections and chopped
- 1 cup golden raisins
- 1/3 cup chopped green onions
- 2 tablespoons fresh cilantro, chopped
Directions
Cook orzo according to package directions, drain.
Prepare orange vinaigrette: combine olive oil, orange juice and orange peel; mix well.
Add salt and pepper to taste.
Combine orzo, oranges, raisins, green onions, and cilantro in serving bowl.
Add orange vinaigrette, toss to coat.
Chill before serving.
Pork Chops with Dijon Dill Sauce Recipe
Servings: 4
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 30 minutes
Ingredients
- 1 pound Pork Loin Chops
- 1 teaspoon oil
- 2 teaspoons Chicken Flavored Bouillon Granules
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic salt
- 1/8 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 cup plain yogurt
- 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard
- 1/4 teaspoon dried dillweed
- 1/4 teaspoon sugar
Directions
In skillet over medium heat, cook pork chops in oil 12-14 minutes, or until cooked through and pork reaches an internal temperature of 155掳F. Remove pork to platter; season with bouillon, garlic salt and black pepper. In small bowl, combine yogurt, mustard, dillweed, and sugar. Serve sauce with pork chops.
This not a fruit/nut pie, but it is my favorite!!!!
My Grandma's Shoo-Fly Pie (one pie)
INGREDIENTS:
1 (9 inch) pie shell
1 cup molasses
3/4 cup hot water
3/4 teaspoon baking soda
1 egg, beaten
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 cup packed brown sugar
1/4 cup shortening
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C).
To Make Bottom Layer: In a medium bowl combine molasses, hot water, and baking soda. Stir well. Whisk in beaten egg. Pour mixture into pie shell.
To Make Crumb Topping: In a medium bowl combine flour and brown sugar. Mix well, then cut in shortening until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Sprinkle on top of molasses layer.
Bake in preheated oven for 15 minutes. Lower temperature to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Bake an additional 30 minutes.
Serve a steak and yourself for dessert
LOBSTER....LOBSTER....LOBSTER...Hope you are old enough to remember the movie ';Flash-Dance';....the lobster dinner scene is almost erotic....if you havn't seen it...rent it;buy the lobsters (two one pounders should do it; reason being, you and your mate will probably never finish the meal...) go home, pop in DVD, go directly to the dinner scene, watch it, turn it off, go upstairs, dress for dinner. Boil 6 qts. of water in a deep pot, 10 mins before dinner, pop those suckers head first into boiling water to cover; cook 10 mins; remove with tongs, melt butter, cut lemons serve...(now remember scene from movie) both dig in and Happy Anniversary !!!!
What does your husband LIKE?!?!
But seriously....anniversaries aren't such a big deal for men as they are for women. If your husband is like most guys, he'll be perfectly content when he comes home to find you...
(1) Holding a pizza in one hand,
(2) Holding a six-pack in the other,
and/or
(3) naked.
I would just go to a sushi and get some to go, along with seaweed salad and japanese dessert. Also buy miso paste (from asian or health food stores) and mix it with warm water for miso soup. You can add a few thin slices of steamed carrot or a few cubes of soft tofu. Buy some sake (japanese wine, to be served hot). That will most likely impress and please him.What is a good dish to cook for my husband for our 4 year anniversary?
lobster
delicious and easy to cook
pop the buggers into a pot of boiling water et voila
serve with some salad
Instant gourmet meal
Anniversary chicken. Its at the www.allrecipes.com website. It is awesome and made just for this occasion.
set up a nice beautiful table and order the food he likes ,to be delivered :-)
This is very easy, and should work.
Beef Supreme
1 package beef stew meat
enough flour to coat meat
3 medium potatoes, peeled and cut into cubes
3 carrots, peeled and sliced (or about a half a bag of baby carrots)
1 medium onion, sliced
2 cans of cream of mushroom soup
salt and pepper
cooked rice or noodles
In a microwave safe casserole dish, place meat and flour - stir around till all the meat has flour on it. Cook on high in the microwave about 5 minutes.
Add all the other ingredients except cooked rice or noodles to the casserole dish. Cover. Cook for 5 minutes on high power, then about 20 minutes on medium power. Serve over rice or noodles.
He will be real impressed, and it's really easy.
If you have trouble cooking rice on the stove, try this:
1 cup rice
2 cups water
place in deep microwaveable casserole dish. Microwave 5 minutes on high and about 15 minutes on medium till liquid is absorbed and rice is done (depends on your microwave just how long it takes). It may boil over a little if your dish isn't deep enough, but it's much easier to clean out a microwave than a pan with burnt rice in it!
Good question, but I would ask you some of his favorite foods. I cook a lot, and probably can recomend some ';easier'; dishes. Also, include what he definately won't eat as well... We'll try to ';cook something up'; for you...
Lamb cutlets with wine sauce and mash!
You'll need the following:
400g potatoes
25g butter
2tbsp olive oil
sea salt
ground black pepper
4 lamb cutlets
1 glass red wine
25g cold butter, diced
4 leeks, trimmed and sliced
well, here we go:
1. Peel the potatoes and boil in a pan of water. Simmer for 20 min and drain well. Return to the pan and shake gently over a low heat to steam off any excess moisture.
2. Add the butter, olive oil, and seasoning and mash well until smooth and creamy. Cover and keep warm .
3. Heat a little olive oil in a frying pan and, when hot, cook the cutlets on a medium to high heat-3min for rare, 4min for medium, 6min for well done.
4. Remove and keep warm. Pour wine into pan and bring to rapid boil. Add cold butter and whisk to the make the sauce. Serve with steam leeks and mash.
Hope I've helped
Mmmm...if you both like it, I'd go italian, with some good wine.
hmmmm im going tell u how make some so hard to eat
ready
GO OUT TO A NICE PLACE AND EAT
u should have to cook
lol
How come he isn't taking you out for the 4th anniversary? That would be my take.
but if you must cook, try a steak, its' hard to ruin.
Crab and Vegetables Mikado
Serves 6
6 to 8 ounces crab meat from an Alaskan King Crab
1/4 pound fresh mushrooms
2 tablespoons butter
1 can bamboo shoots, 6 oz.
1 can of bean sprouts, 1 lb.
4 scallions, sliced 1 1/2 inch thick
1/4 cup soya sauce, Kikkoman light is best
1 tablespoon vinegar
4 teaspoons honey
hot steamed rice
Thaw and drain crab. Slice into chunks. If mushrooms are large, slice in half and saute in butter till golden. Add crab and remaining ingredients to mushrooms; simmer till heated, stirring gently. Serve with hot rice. Rice is good with addition of dried parsley and vegetable both, or maybe a pinch of curry.
I suggest a nice dry sparkling wine like Italian spumante or Trokken Brut. Champagne is a little overwhelming. A nice dessert might be my wife's favourite:
Buy an angel cake from the bakery, as well as a honeydew or canteloupe and a package of light Dream Whip. You can use real whipped if you like. I prefer the lighter quality of Dream whip. Cut the cake into three layers. Take a round cake pan and layer the cake with pieces of fruit and Dream Whip. A nice strawberry sauce or garnish would be a great addition.
Orange Orzo Salad Recipe Prep Time: 25 minutes
Cook Time: 10 minutes
A refreshing salad that looks as pleasing as it tastes.
Orange Orzo Salad
Ingredients
- 8 ounces orzo
- 4 tablespoons olive oil
- 4 tablespoons orange juice
- 3 tablespoons grated orange peel
- salt and pepper to taste
- 2 oranges, peeled, cut into sections and chopped
- 1 cup golden raisins
- 1/3 cup chopped green onions
- 2 tablespoons fresh cilantro, chopped
Directions
Cook orzo according to package directions, drain.
Prepare orange vinaigrette: combine olive oil, orange juice and orange peel; mix well.
Add salt and pepper to taste.
Combine orzo, oranges, raisins, green onions, and cilantro in serving bowl.
Add orange vinaigrette, toss to coat.
Chill before serving.
Pork Chops with Dijon Dill Sauce Recipe
Servings: 4
Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 30 minutes
Ingredients
- 1 pound Pork Loin Chops
- 1 teaspoon oil
- 2 teaspoons Chicken Flavored Bouillon Granules
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic salt
- 1/8 teaspoon black pepper
- 1/4 cup plain yogurt
- 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard
- 1/4 teaspoon dried dillweed
- 1/4 teaspoon sugar
Directions
In skillet over medium heat, cook pork chops in oil 12-14 minutes, or until cooked through and pork reaches an internal temperature of 155掳F. Remove pork to platter; season with bouillon, garlic salt and black pepper. In small bowl, combine yogurt, mustard, dillweed, and sugar. Serve sauce with pork chops.
This not a fruit/nut pie, but it is my favorite!!!!
My Grandma's Shoo-Fly Pie (one pie)
INGREDIENTS:
1 (9 inch) pie shell
1 cup molasses
3/4 cup hot water
3/4 teaspoon baking soda
1 egg, beaten
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 cup packed brown sugar
1/4 cup shortening
DIRECTIONS:
Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C).
To Make Bottom Layer: In a medium bowl combine molasses, hot water, and baking soda. Stir well. Whisk in beaten egg. Pour mixture into pie shell.
To Make Crumb Topping: In a medium bowl combine flour and brown sugar. Mix well, then cut in shortening until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Sprinkle on top of molasses layer.
Bake in preheated oven for 15 minutes. Lower temperature to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Bake an additional 30 minutes.
Serve a steak and yourself for dessert
LOBSTER....LOBSTER....LOBSTER...Hope you are old enough to remember the movie ';Flash-Dance';....the lobster dinner scene is almost erotic....if you havn't seen it...rent it;buy the lobsters (two one pounders should do it; reason being, you and your mate will probably never finish the meal...) go home, pop in DVD, go directly to the dinner scene, watch it, turn it off, go upstairs, dress for dinner. Boil 6 qts. of water in a deep pot, 10 mins before dinner, pop those suckers head first into boiling water to cover; cook 10 mins; remove with tongs, melt butter, cut lemons serve...(now remember scene from movie) both dig in and Happy Anniversary !!!!
What does your husband LIKE?!?!
But seriously....anniversaries aren't such a big deal for men as they are for women. If your husband is like most guys, he'll be perfectly content when he comes home to find you...
(1) Holding a pizza in one hand,
(2) Holding a six-pack in the other,
and/or
(3) naked.
How a spouse applied for US Visa for his husband who is living in India?
I am a Green Card holder living in USA. I want to apply for my husband who is a citizen of India.How a spouse applied for US Visa for his husband who is living in India?
File yr marriage papers, if done!! Without these papers u cant get him a visa. If u have it u will get it done by the Indian counsel in US , maybe some time may be needed but u will get it
_K_How a spouse applied for US Visa for his husband who is living in India?
well u need to go to the india console in the usa to apply.
he can also apply it 2 live in the usa
File yr marriage papers, if done!! Without these papers u cant get him a visa. If u have it u will get it done by the Indian counsel in US , maybe some time may be needed but u will get it
_K_How a spouse applied for US Visa for his husband who is living in India?
well u need to go to the india console in the usa to apply.
he can also apply it 2 live in the usa
While single I purchased a home now married my husband & I purchased a new home does he qualify for the tax ?
While single I purchased a home, now married, my husband and I purchased a new home. He has never bought a house. Do we qualify for the $7500 tax credit? While single I purchased a home now married my husband %26amp; I purchased a new home does he qualify for the tax ?
No, he only qualifies if you live in a non-community state and he buys the house without you. He can not add you later either.While single I purchased a home now married my husband %26amp; I purchased a new home does he qualify for the tax ?
This is a question for your CPA. As a Realtor I can't give you advice because I would be liable if incorrect.
Ask your CPA.
If this property is your homestead then you will probably qualify for that tax benefit. The tax code is very complex and only a CPA can give adequate advice.
Also, if he has homestead rights and you get divorced he has to sign off before you could sell the property. Even if he is not on the title he still has homestead rights to the property.
ASK YOUR CPA!!!
EDIT: Understand that this 7500 new homebuyer credit is a loan. It is paid back over 7 years. It is a tex credit that is paid back. You will pay it back on the back end.
He qualifies if he buys on his own. You don't qualify. You would be trying to ';piggyback'; on his eligibility. Congress debated about this for weeks. Everyone said that the program would be abused by people trying to cheat. You aren't cheating. You just don't want to miss out. The rules are supposed to be on irs.gov in 2 weeks. Call your congressman and they may help. You need to read the IRS rule or you might make a mistake.
If either you or your husband owned a house in the last 3 years, you won't qualify for the interest free loan of $7500.bloom- top makeup
No, he only qualifies if you live in a non-community state and he buys the house without you. He can not add you later either.While single I purchased a home now married my husband %26amp; I purchased a new home does he qualify for the tax ?
This is a question for your CPA. As a Realtor I can't give you advice because I would be liable if incorrect.
Ask your CPA.
If this property is your homestead then you will probably qualify for that tax benefit. The tax code is very complex and only a CPA can give adequate advice.
Also, if he has homestead rights and you get divorced he has to sign off before you could sell the property. Even if he is not on the title he still has homestead rights to the property.
ASK YOUR CPA!!!
EDIT: Understand that this 7500 new homebuyer credit is a loan. It is paid back over 7 years. It is a tex credit that is paid back. You will pay it back on the back end.
He qualifies if he buys on his own. You don't qualify. You would be trying to ';piggyback'; on his eligibility. Congress debated about this for weeks. Everyone said that the program would be abused by people trying to cheat. You aren't cheating. You just don't want to miss out. The rules are supposed to be on irs.gov in 2 weeks. Call your congressman and they may help. You need to read the IRS rule or you might make a mistake.
If either you or your husband owned a house in the last 3 years, you won't qualify for the interest free loan of $7500.
How can I find a care facility for my husband?
My husband is in final stage alcohol cirrhosis of the liver. He is malnourished, weak, and falls a lot. He really needs full time care by medical professionals but I don't know how to get him into a hospital. Since he has to wait 6 months to be considered for a transplant, the Dr. who diagnosed him says there is nothing he can do right now.How can I find a care facility for my husband?
You may want to look into assisted living or full help nursing homes: http://www.ahca.org/, www.longtermliving.com. Or you may want to look into Home Health Agencies: http://www.nahc.org/, http://www.medicare.gov/HHCompare/Home.a鈥?/a>
You may want to look into assisted living or full help nursing homes: http://www.ahca.org/, www.longtermliving.com. Or you may want to look into Home Health Agencies: http://www.nahc.org/, http://www.medicare.gov/HHCompare/Home.a鈥?/a>
What should I do about a problem with my husband?
My husband is starting to go bald. It is ugly to me. He is not even 40 years old yet. I am not attracted to him but this is my second marriage and I have children from my first marriage and now one with him. I have a hard time supporting myself as a single mother. What should I do about this? Do other women have the same problems with their husbands?What should I do about a problem with my husband?
First let me say don't trip on the ones who is being judgmental about your situation. Women should have preferences, we learned from the best, men. Personally I wouldn't leave him because he is going bald. Instead find a solution to the problem. I find it unattractive for a man to have a circle of hair and bald in the middle, or a residing hairline and he want to comb the little that is left to cover up the bald spot. When my man started going bald, I cut off all his hair. Trust me bald men are sexy as hell.What should I do about a problem with my husband?
Yes, I had the same situation. My husband started to go bald before the age of 35. He started to look a little older than he was. So, he shaved his head and boy, I have a sexy bald head husband.
The difference between me and you is I was attracted to and love him when he had a head full of hair and when he start losing his hair. I did not view my husband losing hair as a major problem in our marriage because I loved him for him and not his hair. Hell, there are some things that has changed about me physically during the years but I am thankful he accepts me for it. Believe there are many marriages in this world that is a lot worse than balding (abuse, cheating etc.).
Are you serious? Majority of the people here has given great answers and you should really think about it. When you get older and things begin to sag and get a little wrinkle, do you want your new found husband or boyfriend to leave you? Honey, you keep living long enough, you will see some physical features will change on you as well. But to answer your question, you should leave him because you are there for the looks and not for love. If something else starts to fade on him, you probably want to leave again. So make it better for him and leave. I am sure he would find someone who appreciates him and accept him for his balding. Maybe your husband number 3 wouldn't have any physical problems with balding or weight gain and I sure hope you don't change physically as well.
Get your husband a hat and let him continue to pay those bills or you're going to be a single mother again struggling to pay your bills and take care of your children. Obviously, you didn't marry him out of love or else you would have already anticipated him getting older and losing his hair!! What if he expected you to look the same way you did when you two first got married? You are the definition of '; fickle.'; I can't believe that you would even ponder such a thought of leaving the man you made vows to love thru sickness and health...until '; hair'; done ya'll apart...umph,umph umph? Some people are having real problems out of their spouses...so I need to get to some of them...I am too thru with you!!
Every one's looks fade over time. Someday you might be the one going bald, how would you feel if your husband left you because of something beyond your control? You are supposed to be in a marriage for the long haul, through better or worse. If you really love some one you will always be attracted to them in some way. Maybe you need to work on falling back in love with your husband again...concentrate on all the reasons why you fell in love with him in the first place.
Are you kidding me? Did you think that he would magically have hair forever? Most men don't.
There have been times in my marriage when I couldn't stand my husband. Literally could not stand to be in the same room with him because I was so mad at him or annoyed with him. There have been periods where I wasn't particularly attracted to him. For example, I absolutely hated this pair of glasses he had for a while. But, guess what? We're still married and I've loved him every day...even if I didn't like him some days! I said forever and so did he. And neither of us have done anything to warrant a divorce.
Get over it. Seriously.
I could imagine you in a courtroom asking for a divorce. The conversation would go like this;
Judge: So why do you want to leave your husband?
you: because he is balding?
Did you marry him for the way he looks? Come on now, people can change physically. How would you feel if there's was something on you that begin to change and he is ready to go? Some men bald earlier than others. It could be a hereditary thing.
It seems you married him out of convenience and not for love or friendship. A stable home is what I assume you were looking for? It sounds like you have accomplished that . So try to see past the baldness. You may have some physical imperfections of your own that you have no control over that aren't so pleasing to him.
When you married him you bowed to be with him in good and in bad, I鈥檓 sure you鈥檙e not going to be a super model when you鈥檙e 80 and if you expect him to accept you when you鈥檙e wrinkled and your boobs hit the ground, you better start getting used to the idea of baldy being around!
You're going to divorce your husband for being bald? Do you love the guy? This is silly.
Most women who love their husbands don't care if they are going bald. But if it bothers you that badly maybe you should look into hair transplant or Rogane?
Divorce him now.
Not because he is balding (g-d forbid) but because you are a shallow person who doesn't deserve him to be supporting you.
People like you are why our divorce rate is what it is and so many bag on being married.
Sounds like you are using him. Love is not about hair or lack there of. You are afraid to leave him because you cant support you and your children. Do him a favor and leave him. Or stop being superficial and accept him for who he is.
You sound ridiculous. You're actually contemplating leaving your husband because he's going bald? You must not love him at all.
as long as he's a good hubby and papa, stay with him and just find an ';attractive'; partner outside the marriage for the ';S-E-X'; fun.
Well apparently you didn't marry for love you married for other reasons. It shouldn't matter what he looks like you should love him no matter what.
Everyone changes as they get older even you. I bet you dont look like you did 10 or 15 years ago. I think you should marry a very young guy 18 or 19 so he will look good to you for at least 4 or 5 years
my husband is going bald and he is 22! I will be with him until the day I die! I could care less if he lost every bit of hair on his head. But then again I married for love not looks.
Your attitude is ugly. You should tell him you only married him becuase he had hair and you could sponge off of him. That way, he can divorce your sorry @ss.
I would still love my husband if he was going bald.
He probably thinks the same thing about you.
Why did you have a child with him if you dont even fancy him? sorry but you sound a bit shallow to me!
Grow up already...I'm sure your not mrs perfect.
I have seen a lot of attractive bald men.
dump the bald porker !
cf
ha ha it is a trade off for you girls getting fat.
you must not love him
don't blame it on the lack of hair
First let me say don't trip on the ones who is being judgmental about your situation. Women should have preferences, we learned from the best, men. Personally I wouldn't leave him because he is going bald. Instead find a solution to the problem. I find it unattractive for a man to have a circle of hair and bald in the middle, or a residing hairline and he want to comb the little that is left to cover up the bald spot. When my man started going bald, I cut off all his hair. Trust me bald men are sexy as hell.What should I do about a problem with my husband?
Yes, I had the same situation. My husband started to go bald before the age of 35. He started to look a little older than he was. So, he shaved his head and boy, I have a sexy bald head husband.
The difference between me and you is I was attracted to and love him when he had a head full of hair and when he start losing his hair. I did not view my husband losing hair as a major problem in our marriage because I loved him for him and not his hair. Hell, there are some things that has changed about me physically during the years but I am thankful he accepts me for it. Believe there are many marriages in this world that is a lot worse than balding (abuse, cheating etc.).
Are you serious? Majority of the people here has given great answers and you should really think about it. When you get older and things begin to sag and get a little wrinkle, do you want your new found husband or boyfriend to leave you? Honey, you keep living long enough, you will see some physical features will change on you as well. But to answer your question, you should leave him because you are there for the looks and not for love. If something else starts to fade on him, you probably want to leave again. So make it better for him and leave. I am sure he would find someone who appreciates him and accept him for his balding. Maybe your husband number 3 wouldn't have any physical problems with balding or weight gain and I sure hope you don't change physically as well.
Get your husband a hat and let him continue to pay those bills or you're going to be a single mother again struggling to pay your bills and take care of your children. Obviously, you didn't marry him out of love or else you would have already anticipated him getting older and losing his hair!! What if he expected you to look the same way you did when you two first got married? You are the definition of '; fickle.'; I can't believe that you would even ponder such a thought of leaving the man you made vows to love thru sickness and health...until '; hair'; done ya'll apart...umph,umph umph? Some people are having real problems out of their spouses...so I need to get to some of them...I am too thru with you!!
Every one's looks fade over time. Someday you might be the one going bald, how would you feel if your husband left you because of something beyond your control? You are supposed to be in a marriage for the long haul, through better or worse. If you really love some one you will always be attracted to them in some way. Maybe you need to work on falling back in love with your husband again...concentrate on all the reasons why you fell in love with him in the first place.
Are you kidding me? Did you think that he would magically have hair forever? Most men don't.
There have been times in my marriage when I couldn't stand my husband. Literally could not stand to be in the same room with him because I was so mad at him or annoyed with him. There have been periods where I wasn't particularly attracted to him. For example, I absolutely hated this pair of glasses he had for a while. But, guess what? We're still married and I've loved him every day...even if I didn't like him some days! I said forever and so did he. And neither of us have done anything to warrant a divorce.
Get over it. Seriously.
I could imagine you in a courtroom asking for a divorce. The conversation would go like this;
Judge: So why do you want to leave your husband?
you: because he is balding?
Did you marry him for the way he looks? Come on now, people can change physically. How would you feel if there's was something on you that begin to change and he is ready to go? Some men bald earlier than others. It could be a hereditary thing.
It seems you married him out of convenience and not for love or friendship. A stable home is what I assume you were looking for? It sounds like you have accomplished that . So try to see past the baldness. You may have some physical imperfections of your own that you have no control over that aren't so pleasing to him.
When you married him you bowed to be with him in good and in bad, I鈥檓 sure you鈥檙e not going to be a super model when you鈥檙e 80 and if you expect him to accept you when you鈥檙e wrinkled and your boobs hit the ground, you better start getting used to the idea of baldy being around!
You're going to divorce your husband for being bald? Do you love the guy? This is silly.
Most women who love their husbands don't care if they are going bald. But if it bothers you that badly maybe you should look into hair transplant or Rogane?
Divorce him now.
Not because he is balding (g-d forbid) but because you are a shallow person who doesn't deserve him to be supporting you.
People like you are why our divorce rate is what it is and so many bag on being married.
Sounds like you are using him. Love is not about hair or lack there of. You are afraid to leave him because you cant support you and your children. Do him a favor and leave him. Or stop being superficial and accept him for who he is.
You sound ridiculous. You're actually contemplating leaving your husband because he's going bald? You must not love him at all.
as long as he's a good hubby and papa, stay with him and just find an ';attractive'; partner outside the marriage for the ';S-E-X'; fun.
Well apparently you didn't marry for love you married for other reasons. It shouldn't matter what he looks like you should love him no matter what.
Everyone changes as they get older even you. I bet you dont look like you did 10 or 15 years ago. I think you should marry a very young guy 18 or 19 so he will look good to you for at least 4 or 5 years
my husband is going bald and he is 22! I will be with him until the day I die! I could care less if he lost every bit of hair on his head. But then again I married for love not looks.
Your attitude is ugly. You should tell him you only married him becuase he had hair and you could sponge off of him. That way, he can divorce your sorry @ss.
I would still love my husband if he was going bald.
He probably thinks the same thing about you.
Why did you have a child with him if you dont even fancy him? sorry but you sound a bit shallow to me!
Grow up already...I'm sure your not mrs perfect.
I have seen a lot of attractive bald men.
dump the bald porker !
cf
ha ha it is a trade off for you girls getting fat.
you must not love him
don't blame it on the lack of hair
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