Wednesday, November 23, 2011

How to keep my husband from buying the gift I buy him for Christmas?

Every year I buy my husbands Christmas gift and before I get to give it to him he either buys it or tells me he is going to buy it so I have to tell him that I got it for him for Christmas. Does anyone have any ideas on what I can do so this wont happen again this year? Also does anyone have any ideas on what I can get him?How to keep my husband from buying the gift I buy him for Christmas?
what a bummer!





Tell him'; don't get that ugly thing'; or '; the kids want to get you something like that so dont buy it';





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I have a brother who is EXACTLY like your husband. He always buys stuff he wants before Christmas and we end up not being able to get anything for him.





What I do to stop him buying stuff is tell him that between November and December to not buy anything so that we have ideas of what to get him for Christmas, otherwise he'll end up with nothing. This usually works for us :3
I have an idea what to get your husband if he is into Star Wars, get him the Stars Wars Trivia Pursuit game I don't think he will get that on his own. Only get the game though if you know there are people he would be able to play it with, and the game is only questions on the original 3 movies.


http://www.amazon.com/Trivial-Pursuit-St鈥?/a>
tell him that you really want to buy him something Special this year and you don't want him buying himself anything.


umm i would give you some suggestions on what you could buy him but i would have to know a little more info on what he likes etc.



Tell him he's forbidden to buy himself anything the entire month of December. Tell him it spoils the fun of buying him a present. Tell him if you don't get him what he really wants he can buy it in January.
you can buy some thing like men clone

How many years back I may claim my % of tax return that was taking for due child support of my husband?

May I fill out Injured spouse form 8379 with IRS for 2001, 2002..? At that time IRS didn't give me any information that I could do so.How many years back I may claim my % of tax return that was taking for due child support of my husband?
You can only claim injured spouse for the current tax year. The money has already been intercepted, sent to the state and then sent on to the parent owed child support. The letter your husband received explaining the interception also explained filing for injured spouse.How many years back I may claim my % of tax return that was taking for due child support of my husband?
You only have 3 months from the time that the original tax return was filed for that particular year. You can't go back on the injured spouse form like you can other parts of the tax return. Even when you ammend a prior years return, you can only ammend the last 3 years worth. You missed the deadline already for 2001-2006 as far as the injured spouse claim, there is no way to get that money back. Depending on when you filed 2007's tax return, you may have missed the deadline on it too. Sorry.

How come my two year old twins will nap for my husband but not me?

Whenever he is home and puts them down they both go to sleep. They have napped every day for a few days now because he was home on the weekend and in the middle of the day most of last week.





It's Tuesday and yesterday too I have put them down and within 20 minutes one of them is screaming and banging on the door, keeping them both up, and eventually figures out how to defeat the child proof door knob and they're out and not napping.





What the heck!How come my two year old twins will nap for my husband but not me?
My husband is the only one that can get my 3 year old to take a nap. She will lay down for me but quick as I leave the room she gets up and plays very quietly or she will just scream and keep saying that Im mean or something and it all ends with her getting into trouble and me taking things away and she knows that that will happen every time she refuses to take a nap but she will still do it. My husband works about 5 min away from our house and gets an hour lunch so he comes home and eats lunch with us and then he makes her take a nap.How come my two year old twins will nap for my husband but not me?
Sometimes it is because the kids feel your mood and they sense that you can be maybe a little tense,specially if they are newborn - 15 months.


This had hap pend to me and I find a Solution, for this problem. I usually put them to sleep around the same time usually 20 minutes after lunch that way they are full and probably sleepy. I will tell them after lunch you are going to sleep for a little while and after resting you will have a delicious snack or dessert. I put some classical music or TV show set 30min, time for TV to turn off. That way they can fall asleep and I try to relax too. Either I go to sleep,read or just finish pending house shores.But usually I try to relax (like me time).....Just be patient and try this out maybe it can work for you too!! Good luck %26amp; best wishes :)
I would start by reversing the lock on the door and locking them in (naturally making sure there are no hazards in the room first). Then, as the first answerer said, be firm with them and don't give up. It's the same as the CIO method at night (obviously unpopular, but effective). After a while they should give up and go to sleep.





Also, ask your husband what he does!
Ian goes through phases like that between my husband and I. He is around 20 months old and will go for an entire month where only my husband can get him down peacefully for a nap and then out of no where he switches!!! I can't imagine having 2 to put down. Super mom!!!
Maybe he's more stern with them than you are, so they listen to him
Perhaps they take him more seriously? He may have laid down the law(intentionally so, or unintentionally) and they know that dad is serious when he says something. How would he react to them getting out of bed and banging on the door?





I used to care for a little boy that decided he no longer wanted to nap. He was about 2 years old when it started and his mother just went with it. She would put him in the bed, and he would kick up a fuss(cry, get out of the bed, etc), and she would handle it by letting him stay up.





I, on the other hand put him in for his nap, and if he got out of the bed, he went straight back to the bed. He knew that I was serious and no amount of crying, screaming, getting out of bed, etc was going to get me to let him skip his nap. I used the back to bed technique(where you keep putting them back in the bed--no eye contact, talking,etc). He used to sleep very well when I was with him. He would doze off about 10 min after his head hit the pillow, and sleep for at least an hour.





You need to be the boss. If you don't want them to take a nap, that is fine, but the decision should be yours, not your childrens. Set rules and boundaries and stick to them. Children test boundaries all the time, you need to stick to your guns and keeps those boundaries in place. The testing was getting up and seeing if you would let them skip nap, by allowing them to skip the nap, you have essentially taught them that all they have to do is get out of bed, scream, cry, etc and they will not have to nap.

Why shouldn't my husband and I get permits to carry a firearm?

Seems like all these psychos are out here with guns ready to kill whoever. Why shouldn't the good people have them too?Why shouldn't my husband and I get permits to carry a firearm?
You should get them. I want you to.





However, with that weapon will come great responsibility. Take handling and retention classes, and always practice with it. Its no good to you if someone takes it away from you. Also take classes that are specific to your state so that you know the laws when it comes to you using that weapon.





Also ask yourself if you could pull the trigger. My sister was thinking was about getting a gun for self defense but when I asked her if she could put a bullet in another human's head, she said ';No.'; I told her to leave the guns alone.Why shouldn't my husband and I get permits to carry a firearm?
Who says you shouldn't?? I am a firm believer that citizens should have the means to protect themselves and property. I applaud you for thinking the same way...
You should, but as others have commented, only do so if you are willing to live with the guilt that you have taken a human life because that is what can happen very easily when you pull that trigger.





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One should NOT get a firearm/permit without thorough and proper training in its use. Safety is of UTMOST importance and if ya'll have children, they should be taken into the equation. Otherwise, go for it!!!!!!!!!!
Unless you have prior convictions related to carrying firearms or participation in felonious acts, there is no reason why, AFTER taking gun safety courses, that you shouldn't have a permit for concealed carry or open carry - dependent upon your local and state regulations.





Also, remember to keep your permit current, and go to a gun safety range now and again to keep your skills current and safe.





And above all, don't draw your gun unless you are fully prepared to use it and never shoot unless you are willing to see whomever you are aiming your gun at die.
well do u actually need a gun for a specific reason? or r u just being very dramatic and supposing u need one at all times for protection?





if people dont own guns, others dont get shot!! ';Why shouldn't the good people have them too?'; there would be mayhem if every hick who fancied carrying a fire arm was running around ';protecting'; themselves
why shouldnt you? my husband is not only a police officer but also military police, and of course carries a firearm. we have talked about me gettin a permit also as he is gone alot. you have a constitutional right to bear arms and if you want to you can. im all for it. if it is something you genuinely want go for it
you should get permits and arm yourself........you can't count on the police to protect you
maybe you should consider moving to Rhode Island or something...
i had to call the police during the night after i first moved to CA. i was suprised to hear an answering machine pick up the phone. can you believe that?


had we been in a position where we had an intruder we would've been in serious trouble! my beliefs on guns have always been that they were dangerous and that homes with children should never have guns. i have changed my position, needless to say. you have a right to bear arms and a responsibility to protect your family. as long as you are responsible and keep it safe DO IT!
There is NO reason why you shouldn't. I have a license to carry and do quite often.
Unfortunately, accidents can and do happen. A person I know accidently shot his younger brother in the chest and killed him while cleaning a gun (probably one of the most horrifying things a person could go through). They are not safe at all and, should you have one, there's always the risk of your child finding it.





However, there are other things you can do.





1. Avoid those ';bad'; neighborhoods you speak of so you don't have to worry about getting stranded in them.


2. Avoid driving/walking alone whenever possible... especially late at night and in potentially dangerous areas.


3. Take a self-defense class.


4. Study your area to find out what parts (streets, neighborhoods, etc.) have the most crime in them and do everything possible to avoid those places.


5. Lock the doors of your car while driving to keep potential car jackers away.


6. Carry other non-deadly (or less deadly) weapons such as mace, a pistol-size BB gun (might be enough to scare someone off since they can look like real guns), a baseball bat, etc.


7. Avoid bars and night clubs since the ';bad guys'; will likely be near these places.


8. Should you decide to carry a gun, be sure to get trained in it's proper use and safety and practice with it ONLY in a safe area AWAY FROM THE PUBLIC. It won't do you any good if you pull it out and shoot yourself in the foot (or worse). In addition, it's also possible that a gun alone (without bullets) would likely be enough to scare off many potential ';predators'; (unless they have a gun themselves and are willing to use it).





NOTE: Remember that just because Detroit is the ';number 1'; city for murder, that doesn't mean there are a lot of ';murderers'; there. It just means it ranked higher than the 2nd-place city, and that there are more murders there per year than in other similar cities. A lot of these statistics have to do with the larger population in such a city (a city with 500,000 people or more will likely have more murders than a city with, say, only 40,000 people).
By all means, go arm yourselves. You have a right, and an obligation to defend yourself and your family
There is no reason why you shouldn't be able to, but do you really need to? How many people are actually psychos? If I had to guess, I would say maybe 0.001%. That's a pretty low number to justify carrying a gun. And just remember, everyone is a law abiding citizen until they kill someone. I just hope you or your husband don't have a bad temper or an itchy trigger finger.

How to convince future husband to allow to possibly name future baby?

Hello,


The thing is he knows that I have named past two cats this name and he is bothered by this. I named them my favorite name, because I never thought I would potentially find a man and want to settle down.





Anyways, the name is for a girl and it is Riley.How to convince future husband to allow to possibly name future baby?
Well the two of you need to compromise. Riley IS a nice name, but the name should stay with your cats. Your daughter should have her own name I think.


What about Ryan, Hayley, Ashley, Leah, Annaliese, Annaliesa, Liesel, Evelisa, Lisa, Elisa, Ainsley, or Avery? They're kind of similar.How to convince future husband to allow to possibly name future baby?
Its weird I guess, but its not like you're naming them that after your pets as in because it was your pets name, but....you're naming it because its your favorite name....





but it is a bit odd, if it ever comes up in conversation. If you really cant agree come up with a compromise (Kiley) or your second favorite name, w/e that may be.
Gee, any kid would love to know they are named after the same as a cat...





I think it's a bit weird. It's not the only name out there, surely you can find something else you like. Regardless, the name you choose should be something both you and your husband are happy with, not just you.
Riley is a VERY trendy name right now and it is so over-used that it's actually become quite funny.





It would be really odd to name your baby after two past cats and I can understand why your fiance has an aversion to it.
You are going to have to come up with a new name. It is strange calling two separate cats the same name, but totally ridiculous to even suggest you use the same name for your future child.
Ha my husbands the same





ive had


Sacha


Owen


Charlie





as oets so he ruled these names out





EVEN though his mum named him after a Thunderbird Scott!
tell him that you really love the name and if he lets you have the choice of the first name, he can pick the middle name.
why a male name like Reilly for a girl?





yeah i can see his point he doesn't want a kid named after a kid


if its a boy will you call it spot? or rover?
m aybe ur baby is the reincarnatin of ur cats and i think its ok to name a abay after a cat or dog Rover tiger blackey fluffy patch are great names and i think ppl should experiment more with names
Riley is a masculine BOYS name. Awful for a little girl.
I love the name Riley, but I do think it's a bit odd to name your first child after two of your past cats.
RILEY is definitely a boys' name!!! Don't name your little GIRL a boys' name ..that's just embarrassing!!
cats name should be some deference
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  • Should I leave my husband change or give my daugher a bath?

    My daugher just turned 3 years old, and sometimes when I am busy my husband gives her a bath and change her nappy. Do you think I should worry about that or not?Should I leave my husband change or give my daugher a bath?
    Do you have a reason to worry? It's perfectly normal for a dad to change his childs diaper and give baths. It's called sharing the responsibility. If you seriously think your husband would do something to her, then you should leave him.





    Most likely, what you should do, is be thankful that your man is willing to help out with the child. Some men refuse to change diapers simply because it's unpleasant.





    Also, with him helping out, he is bonding with his child. That is never a bad thing.Should I leave my husband change or give my daugher a bath?
    I assume you trust your husband.





    If he is a child molester, or has made obvious to you that he has thoughts of doing that, or that it is okay to do, then obviously, you should divorce and move far away from your husband, to protect your daughter.





    Otherwise, sure, let him change and bathe his daughter. He is her father.
    Why would you worry? He can help with bath time until about age 7, only because she might feel a little embarrassed by then. Be thankful for any help for even part of the bath. Sometimes it takes 2 people when washing and rinsing out the hair, kids scream so much about shampoo in their eyes or just fear of drowning....ect.
    Why would you worry? Are you seriously telling us you're married to and living with someone who you think is sexually attracted to a three year old?





    If he isn't, then of course you shouldn't worry. So what if he's a man? Most dads change nappies at least occasionally.
    why worry about the changing/bathing unless you think he's doing something inappropriate. if that is the case, you need to get your daughter away from him immediately. otherwise, be grateful that he is helping out. good luck.
    No...Why??....Perhaps when she gets to five and six then perhaps yes.....but I dont see anything wrong as a father doing that...Afterall she is his daughter...Unless you suspect she is being sexually assaulted I wouldnt get too paranoid?
    why should you be worried? it's his child too, he should help out. are you implying you think he is sexually abusing your child? if you suspect this, i don't know what to tell you.
    um, no...thats perfectly normal. unless you suspect your husband is sexually abusing her or something, then you have nothing to worry about..
    Can we get someone to screen for serious questions please? This is ridiculous..
    you should worry if he didn't. she's his kid too, right
    you are sick

    Can my almost ex husband file business banktruptcy on just his behalf and stick me with everything?

    My husband and I had a small restaurant together while we were married. Now we're almost divorced and we are going to file business bankruptcy. He says he can just file on his behalf and stick me with everything. Is this possible?Can my almost ex husband file business banktruptcy on just his behalf and stick me with everything?
    You NEED, I repeat NEED, an attorney.





    If he can file on his own behalf and stick you with everything it seems logical that you could then file in your own behalf and stick your creditors with everything.





    This is sheer speculation on my part -- see an attorney


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