How would a woman be able to tell if her husband is Gay?

I feel sorry for a good friend of mine, her and her boyfriend/ Husband have been together for 9 years, they have 3 kids and a pretty good life, but she is always so self concious because her husband never wants to have sex. She feels like there is something wrong with her but she is beautifull, why does she have to beg him to make love to her? She says the only time they do anything sexual is if they are a little drunk, what is going on?How would a woman be able to tell if her husband is Gay?
im sorry but that's a huge indicator if he is gay, check his browsing history on the internet, credit card history to see what he's bought, and tell her to confront him about this, i'm gay myself and wasting 9 years of someone's life is pretty harshHow would a woman be able to tell if her husband is Gay?
Stress: Work, Kids, Finances, Wife, Friends...etc!


Depression or other mental illness!


Lack of time!


Pressured!


Physical illness!


Has another woman on the side





There are so many reasons why her husband might not want to have sex that has nothing to do with him being gay! More then likely its one of those things!
Maybe she needs to just ask him. Presuming he's gay is a little far-fetched unless she caught him checking out another man.





She needs to sit him down, ask him wtf is wrong and go from there.
Maybe he doesn't wana make love to her because he doesn't love her anymore. Nine years is a long time...
Sticky situation there huh?