Thursday, July 29, 2010

Who can i contact if i want to report an abusive army husband?

he is away and won't bring his family with him, he even won't tell people that he is married with kids.i think he is fooling around.Who can i contact if i want to report an abusive army husband?
SO........how is this CONSIDERED ABUSE?????Who can i contact if i want to report an abusive army husband?
What you described sounds like nothing more than him neglecting his marriage vows, not a criminal offense. The army does not recognize neglect of your wife as a form of spousal abuse. If he is neglecting his kids by simply leaving them with mom and staying away from them, he is still not committing a crime, unless he leaves them with no care at all, or is caring for them in a bad way, or abandons them with someone besides their mom. As long as the wife has the kids, that isn't going on.





The army certainly does recognize physical abuse and any other types of criminal acts, like threats of physical violence (which is the crime of assault). Adultery is also a crime under the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), but it s difficult to prove. He has to either be living with somebody, he hsa to admitt to it, the woman has to admit to it, or you have to literally catch him in the act. If you have actual knowledge or evidence of any of the above, you should contact his unit commander, the post military police detachment, the post provost marshal's office, or the commanding general's office. Do not exagerate or make allegations that are not true, though. Making false statements to law enforcement or to officials (like his commanding officer) in the context of a criminal investigation or complaint is a crime.





However, he is required to provide any court-ordered child support or alimony, and he can get in trouble if he is living in Army family housing with no dependents residing there, or if he is accepting basic allowance for housing (BAH) (with dependents) and is simply pocketing the additional money (for the dependents) and not sending it to his wife. That would be the crime of fraud. He is entitled to the part of BAH for his own personal housing if he is living off post, and doesn't have to give his wife that part of the BAH. Although his unit may require him to live in the barraks if the wife and kids are gone, and I suppose he could thereore be disobeying an order (which is a crime under UCMJ).
You need to know more. When he leaves can he take his family?? I am all for getting the SOB if he is abusive. You need to make sure he is not just being a A**. Call his sargent and talk to him. Also are you miltary? Cuz if you are not miltary or a type of dependnt then call the police if there is sign of physical abuse. Talk to the wife, tell her what you see. Feel her out about it, if it's bad then she needs afriend also you can't help unless she wants to help herself. If he is fooling arums as you think then he could get inbog trouble for it. So just find out more unless it's physical then call police when you see it. Hope I help.
You wanna know the truth and this sucks but i have seen it happen. The army is for the soldier not the family it really depends on his unit.


Sometimes they dont care as long as he is a good soldier and does his job well. When it comes to the army its tricky. They have a double standard from where i am at. and i was in and i am a spouse. so you just make sure you cover your own *** because if word gets around you could bet everyone will be telling him how to cover his.
Uh, where is the abuse in that?





You can contact a lawyer from the yellow pages if you are concerned about your physical and emotional health and wish to get a divorce.





You can call 911 for physical abuse.





You can use common sense and type the same question into google search and get an answer seconds later.
The first step is to contact his Army commander. Most Army bases also have hotlines you can call. You can contact his Chaplain, too.





You can usually find out this information online...just use Yahoo search to look up the name of the base, and it will have contact numbers listed.
Call the military police asap! He gets extra money and housing for being married with kids. You need to put this a**hole in his place. If you don't know how to contact them go to your local recruiting office.
Call his commander to report abuse. If it's physical, call the police. If you need a divorce, call a lawyer. Military One Source is the 24hr help line. Google it for a toll free number. Good luck!
call the police %26amp; file a report





then they'll do the rest contact the army %26amp; take care of all the other things for you





i wish you the very best





*PCG
You need to go see his CO. or family counselling. They have that on base, don't they? Or talk to the Chaplain.
call the MPs. (military police) they dont mess around.
divorce that loser. take your kids. and get out of his life. start over(:
Is that all he is doing? If so, it isn't abuse. I'm not sure about the army's stance on cheating, you would have to ask.
The Military Police office.
Report it to his C.O., a lot of times they take stuff like that very serious. I've seen it done by other wives and know one that recently did.
The police. The army. Abuse hotline. etc.
His Comanding officer or the ombudsman
The wife. Let her know he's a two-timer. She'll figure everything out. %26lt;3
His Commanding Officer there.
gterterteter
penelopy house
call the local police and say that he threatened you and they will take care of the rest
you need to tell the Army
police
Contact his higher-ups and be prepared to show them proof that you two are married....they will put his a.ss in check.
Military police... they will put him in his place.

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