Sunday, August 22, 2010

How do you get yourself in the mood for your husband?

I,m under so much stress from his unruley son and moving into a town having no friends and all I do is clean, and cook. He wants me every day before leaving for work and when he comes home at night 2am! I love him to death as he loves me but it just isn't there. His son is disrespectful and I'm the one home with him EVERYDAY. He says he understands but I really don't think he does.How do you get yourself in the mood for your husband?
Well, men generally don't understand where women are coming from because they don't have the ability to think the way we do. Try to set down with your husband and step-son and set some ground rules. Also, another suggestion would be to try to have a few days in between sex and see if the excitement returns. Unfortunately it's really hard to feel sensual when your stressed. Do you get any time for yourself without the child? If you don't try taking a evening for yourself some time and just relax. Do something that you enjoy and never get the chance to do anymore. Best of luck to you and I totally understand where your coming from. My step-children cause many fights for us.How do you get yourself in the mood for your husband?
You need to sit your husband down and explain to him that with the stress you are having during the day, not having an friends, and dealing with is unruly son, you are having a hard time getting in the mood.


Tell him that maybe you'll have more energy if his son did more around the house to help, then maybe you could go out and get a part time and meet some people. Join a book club or a gym to get yourself back out into society. Also, ask your husband if you can set aside time for the two of you.
take some time out for yourself first of all.


and tell your husband you love him a lot but right now your so stressed with whats going on. maybe you could all sit down with his son and make some rules to help control him. (depending on his age) if he is still young take control as his new mother and start to teach him right from wrong.


as for getting in the mood with your husband treat yourself to some new lingerie or something to make you feel sexy.


or maybe you could talk to your husband about ways he could please you so you both enjoy it better.
Well, why did you put yourself into this situation where you moved to a new town, don't have any friends and just stay home taking care of his kid????


This has to change!! You need to get out more, make friends, learn about the town, enjoy life!!!! If you enjoy your life, you'll enjoy your husband, too!!





Taking a bubble bath, reading a steamy romance novel, thinking of your favorite fantasy are all good ideas.
To tell you the truth, if he wants you before and after work then I think he may need to lower his needs especially if he is saying he understands and he obviously doesn't. Just talk to him and let him know why your not in the mood.
Get his son a babysitter every once in a while to take some stress of you. Ask your husband to rub you down and help you to relax, and good long foreplay from feet to head.
discipline the brat first of all.


set him straight who the boss is.


then when that's out of your system you'll feel like the queen of the home again and happier.
watch porn or cheat on him but stop before u climax and go home and wait for him to finish the job and he will never know





SWEET MILDRED SENT ME
Think of someone else who's hot.


Or watch porn.

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