What if your husband got a lady number what would you do?

My husband got some other woman number but he said that he didn't use the number. I called the number before I asked him and she also said that he didn't call but that didn't make me feel better. He act as though it was nothing because he didn't call her but he still had the number. I don't know what to do but leave him.What if your husband got a lady number what would you do?
Here's what matters- did he ASK for the number, or did she just GIVE it to him?


If she gave it to him, it was because she was interested, not necessarily him.


If he asked for it...there's trouble brewing.What if your husband got a lady number what would you do?
Have you asked your husband why he kept the number? I have been hit on before and received a number from a woman, I threw it away. I also have a bad habit of not throwing stuff out, which, could result in me forgetting I have the number.





You don't need to leave him, you need to talk to him and see how you feel. This is a blow to you, and your trust. You need to decide if you trust him with what he is telling you.
First of all, the fact that you called that number is unforgivable, if he doesn't have a history of cheating. That person did not give her contact info to YOU, she gave it to HIM. What right do you have to violate her privacy, and to violate his that way?





Second of all, did he say why he had the number? I've found LOTS of papers around the house and in my husband's wallet, with a female name and a number, and I've never thought they were from lovers. He has to contact customers, call the lady at the mortgage office, call a friend...





I think you should leave him. He deserves someone who won't instantly think he's a cheater and invade his privacy that way.
You are acting childish if you leave him over this...He said that he didnt call and she said that he didnt call...Maybe she met him at work and gave him her number and he told her that he was married therefore nothing was going to happen...He didnt do anything wrong...He didnt contact her and he didnt cheat on you.





If you are looking for a way out of ur marriage, trying to blame this as ur reason for leaving is going to make you look like a fool.
I'm probably going to have an opinion that many people will not agree with but here it goes...





Yes, your right to be hurt and your husband did not do the right thing by either denying her attempts to give him the number, or by asking her for the number..BUT had he been seriously interested he would of called her..Sometimes people do the dumbest things and do not think of what the consequences will bring. It was stupid and harmful for him to accept the number or ask for it, but in all probability it was a ';in the moment'; decision just to prove ';he's still got it'; to himself..He made a stupid decision that has put doubt in your heart, and this can only be fixed by him showing you that this was a one time mistake..If you chose to stay and work through this, then know that it will take time to get over the insecurities that this has brought about. Best wishes...:)
Not enough information. How did he get the number. Even if he got it, he obviously didn;t call. So even if he was thinking about hooking up with that woman, he chose you over her. You are making a mountain out of a molehill. You might need to make sure your husband isn't thinking about cheating, but he didn;t do anything worth ruining a marriage over.
if it really bothers you then call the number and ask her how he got the number and warn her off in a gentle way. if he has a problem with that then tell him he had better get used to it if he is gonna carry on like that. you cant help how you feel - and you cant stay with someone who makes you feel like that. good luck x
your husband is lucky he isn't mine. i would make his dumb a** sit down and write 10 pages of ';i am a married man. i will not flirt';





don't let him off the hook w/ this one. he needs to say w/ his own mouth that he won't accept or ask for women's numbers ever again. it IS the little things that lead to the big things.
I would ask him WHY he got the number if he had no intention of calling her?





Secondly, I would ask why he is married if he's out getting other womens numbers?





third, I would give him a pillow to use for the couch he will be sleeping on for a long time.
Dear Lady from India ,Love and Trust are very essential in a marriage and you need to be strong hearted! Just co-incidences shall not mar an institution.Ever heard of MEDITATION....Give love fully and unconditionally that he would forget any number..
Don't worry about it unless something else pops up or he makes a habit of it.
You should leave him if he does it again.