Sunday, August 22, 2010

What do you do about the woman at work who is always comparing you favorably to her husband?

';Wow, you're so strong. My husband could never lift that.';





';You have a great education and career ahead. My husband dropped out of school and works at Home Depot.';





';You have great hair. My husband's seemed to start falling out right after we got married.';





';You've kept yourself up well over the years, my husband...';





You get the idea. What are some good replies for women like this? I tend to mostly work with women, and they often complain like that. I try to never reply anything negative about said loser husbands.What do you do about the woman at work who is always comparing you favorably to her husband?
Tell her that she reminds you of your wife...always complaining about her husband.





Or, you can tell her, ';Thank you for the compliment, but it's not very nice to speak poorly of your husband like that. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if he told his female co-workers, 'you've kept yourself up well...my wife sags all over and works as a Wal-Mart greeter.'';What do you do about the woman at work who is always comparing you favorably to her husband?
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, and she seems to have a case of this.





Tell her that though her comments are not mean towards you, you can't understand why she is still together with her husband if there's so many negatives about him. If she defends herself and says she loves her husband, point out that it sure doesn't seem that way with some of the things she says. If she agrees, you will have given her something to think about.





If her saying those things annoy you, say that too. Tell her how she feels about her husband has nothing to do with you and you would appreciate it if she stopped associating you with him.
your thriving on this arn't you, well suga buns one day in the not to distant future its gonna be you some wife is complaining about, instead of assuming their all '; Loser husband's'; just accept they could be venting about their imperfections, we all have them by the way.
she is unwise and in sin. She is positioning herself to have much affection for you when you should remind her that she married him and he loves her.





Women stupidly knock down there husbands. it is wrong





Stay away from her
Just ignore it. Remember you have better at home. ';the grass is always greener on the other side'; right? Its not. And it wouldnt be worth trying to find out either.
she is giving you a hint that she is open for an affair with you..or at least some flirtation...its a judgment call as to what you should do with that.
It may be an invitation to open affair. But think about this. Even loser Husbands will eventually get even. Do you want to risk being on the receiving end of there revenge.
As King Arthur would say...';Run away! Run away!';.





Seriously...if these things make you uncomfortable just tell her that they do.
Just ignore her unless you want to go along with her


hints that she wants to have an affair with you.
you don't ';DO'; anything.





who cares.





sounds like her issues.





i wouldn't even respond, maybe she'll get the hint and go talk to someone else.
show just how better you are at other things...';wink'; ';wink'; ';wink'; you know what I mean!
Try to get some sexy time without spending a ton.
do your duty as male species and make them all happy.
Just say thank you, and keep doing your job.
She likes you! Those talks would lead you on to something else. Beware!
take her for a joy ride ;)
tap it
You realize that these are lame women that deserve their lamo husbands. No one should ever criticize their spouse if they love them. We all have imperfections and to say rude comments about who they decided to marry to YOU makes them look like losers in my opinion. It's one thing to tell your mother those things about your husband, or even a close girlfriend. Not some male coworker, its sleazy. I work with some gorgeous pharmacists and physicians and never once in my life have I said a negative thing about my husband. I only praise him in the presence of other men. Otherwise they would try to have affairs with me even more than they already do, and I would have been not only asking for it but giving the hint that I would succumb to that type of nonsense.

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