I'm 8 months pregnant and a little worried about how things are going to be with my boyfriend after I have my child. We haven't been doing so well.. I'm just curious how having a child affected your relationship?How did having a child affect your relationship with your husband or boyfriend? Good or Bad?
Sorry dont wanna upset you but if its not going well now then it might just get worse or he might be mesmerized by the baby once baby arrives but it wont change much with your relationship. I've had 3 kids in last 3 yrs with a miscarriage and abortion and i am 22yrs old my hubby and i havent separated for all that time he had left work to support me and the only days we werent sexually active was i guess 3-4weeks after birth. Alot of things can be told by the fact that you are still full on sexually active and kissing/hugging helping each other like normally do. Even if you fight/argue sometimes (which my last 3yrs has revolved around) it is important to still show each other love(physically)How did having a child affect your relationship with your husband or boyfriend? Good or Bad?
When I was pregnant we had some problems too. I was very concerned things were going to end with us. But, after the baby was born we became soooo much closer. I think it was all the stress of having a baby that put a strain on our relationship. Once the baby came, all of that stress went away. Three weeks before my son turned 1 we got married and 2 months later found out we were having another. We just celebrated our 4th anniversary 2 days ago and things are better than ever.
I hope it all works out for you the way it did for me!
it will bring u guys closer
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